The Rhythm of Routine

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We mark transitions in our lives one way or another, usually by big events like graduation, careers, marriage, children, and retirement. It was the same for Jacob — except a little more dramatic. Jacob’s mostly routine life was marked by four different encounters with God.

The storyteller in the Bible compresses time and especially highlights the moments when something unusual happens to Jacob. Reading the story, it sounds like “and then…and then…and then…” but of course his life wasn’t that way. Think about your own life and how the story would read if it was covered day by day for your entire adult life.

One of the unfortunate effects of abbreviating his story is getting the sense that something is always happening in the life of Jacob. A chapter ends and the next begins with another story, and we are tempted to think Jacob’s life was one interesting moment after another with hardly a pause in between.

Although he seems to be hearing from God all the time, nothing could be further from the truth, I suspect. Yes, there are stories of problems with his family, his unruly children and the neighbors, but it was not the exhilarating life of nonstop revelation we sometimes imagine.

In Jacob’s life, there is a great deal of time — decades — between visions with nothing rousing or even memorable happening. He was a shepherd, and shepherds don’t typically lead exciting lives. They take care of sheep and my guess is that it is mostly routine work built around the animals’ predictable needs — not the serene pastoral image you see in much of European art. Or as Wendell Berry points out, there is a big difference between working farmers and well-intentioned people romanticizing a return to farm life.

We distort Jacob’s life when we try to make it more than it was —a day-to-day unremarkable pattern of the ordinary. Our modern notion of God showing up everywhere we turn and, in every circumstance, to inspire us is not the way Jacob’s life played out. He went for years at a time simply going to work every day.

I like what Oswald Chambers says about the mundane: “Drudgery is one of the finest tests to determine the genuineness of our character. Drudgery is work that is far removed from anything we think of as ideal work. It is utterly hard, menial, tiresome and dirty work. And when we experience it, our spirituality is instantly tested, and we will know whether or not we are spiritually genuine.”

If you look at Scripture, you’ll see that many, many people are only mentioned as part of a list — and we skip over those to get to the lives that we think really matter. We want a life that means something, and often we define that as a life of tangible accomplishment and affirmation from God. We want a long obituary — not to be part of a list of people who lived and died without further comment. We want a life that is more than tending sheep for years on end with little change.

Annie Dillard wrote: “There is no shortage of good days. It is good lives that are hard to come by. A life of good days lived in the senses is not enough. The life of sensation is the life of greed; it requires more and more. The life of the spirit requires less and less; time is ample and its passage sweet.”

We need the example of Jacob to understand and be grateful that the routine of life is as much a part of God’s rhythm in the world as the transcendent.

 

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    Jeff Pope
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    I just returned from a 3-day silent retreat at the Jesuit Retreat House here in Minnesota. A principle of the Jesuit’s retreats is “freedom from distraction.” So they do many things the same way every year: same room, same menu, same schedule, etc. It’s very liberating! It’s totally free of trivial distractions and allows me to settle right in and pray, meditate, and think. And it makes me realize how much of my everyday life I spend hassling with the trivial arrangements of my life.

    • Fred Smith
      Fred Smith
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      Jeff – One of the few things I liked about the military was not having to think about what to wear every day. There are a few things like that which would make my life so much simpler and allow me to concentrate on the few things that matter. Part of me loves routine and then another part bristles at any attempt to put me in one I don’t choose. Or, wretched man that I am.

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    Joel jennings
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    Great but simple wisdom. You nailed me. I loved Annie Dillard’s comment.
    Somebody said to me many years ago. Have never forgotten it. ” The trouble with life is that it’s so daily “. Similar message

    Thanks
    Joel

    • Fred Smith
      Fred Smith
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      A few years ago (and even now periodically) I get caught up in worrying about what I have accomplished in life compared to what others have done. It’s like drinking salt water, isn’t it? I know in my heart that the best lives are built one day at a time – like sedimentary rock. One thin layer on another. One day at a time. Annie Dillard has several quotes about living this way and they are all memorable.

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    Leigh Vickery
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    The painting is called “The Rhythm of Life” by Henri Matisse in case you didn’t know that. I like thinking about life as a rhythm (instead of a routine) because rhythm allows for variation and free verse on occasion!

  • Fred Smith
    Fred Smith
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    That’s one of the pleasures of working here, isn’t it? We can do both.

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    Marcia Garrett
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    BAM! That’s exactly what these words did…hit the heart of my life. And to Leigh Vickery, in my new life we always talk about life as, The Rhythm of Life! Think I need a copy of that painting! And Fred, I’ve already printed off this post to add to my library of Fred’s Words. 😀

    • Fred Smith
      Fred Smith
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      BAM? What am I? Emeril? I prefer a more moderated response like “Ooof!” or “how insightful” maybe. Seriously, thank you Marcia.

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    Toni hibbs
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    Thankful for the routine.
    I love tending sheep.
    Living without further comment.

    This was a good one, Fred!
    Hugs❤️

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    Brent Hample
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    The other day, our daughter was comparing herself to other teens: “Natale is singing in Carnegie Hall, Everett is a star basketball player. And what have I done?” Her attitude reminded me of a passage in a book by Margaret Craven, “Gordon was not interested in the past. His mind reached only ahead with that urgent intensity which makes youth seem selfish, and is so necessary to difficult accomplishment.”

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